PUA skill # 2 – Courage
You need giant cohones because doing the right things, saying the right words requires courage.
But your cohones won't grow overnight. They will grow as you take on bigger and bigger challenges.
You might need to start small.
Talking to strangers might be a challenge.
But after each time your confidence will increase.
Maybe not right away. You might feel awful because of the rejection.
But there's a cure for that. Do the same thing right away.
A girl rejected you?
Talk to the next one. And next one.
Become immune to rejection.
Mission: Every day for the next month do something that takes courage!
Forget excuses, just do it!
Because in life there are no failures. Only learning opportunities.
So every time learn something and you've succeeded.
PUA skill #1 – Humor
Why humor?
Whatever method or style you use... Humor is probably the most important skill for any PUA.
You can say things with humor you couldn't say otherwise.
Humor allows you to recover from bad situations.
What kind of humor?
There are different styles of humor/comedy. The best for picking up women and asserting yourself as the alfa male is "Cocky & Funny", a term coined by David DeAngelo.
It's a mixture of arrogance and humor.
There's a fine line between insulting and making people laugh. Usually it's laughter.
Remember: If they're laughing. You're doing it right.
Mix and match.
Basic principle is to display a high ego and creativity in a humorous way.
Accusations, weirdness, mysteries, narcissism, story-telling, stereotypes, role-playing.
Accuse her of wanting you. Flirting with you. Sexually harrassing you.
Accuse her of being rude, stealing your jokes, having no manners (remember the line), having a bad taste, a weird sense of style.
Accuse her of being a bad girl, shy librarian, dorky model, wimpy vegeterian, heartless carnivore.
Missinterpret things. Accuse her of hating old people, kids. Accuse her of racism, feminism, shovinishm, ungratitude.
Make weird accusations like wearing striped socks on sunday.
"You're wearing striped socks on sunday? Uncool bro!
Why do you hate zebras that much?"
Examples of Cocky&Funny
"Cool glasses... My grandma has the same ones."
"Hey! Stop stealing my jokes."
When entering some place she hasn't been yet: "Now behave. There are civilized people in here."